i guess i am not doing something right on this site

im done i throw the towel in. i must be the dumbest person on this page. it clearly says where i am so why the hell ask me where im at then ssy its to far. i mean for fricken real. im done with this platform. my mental health can not take any more . i mean either u guys are not all there or idk what. i dont know why i have to pay to be on here but obsavially the guys and spammers dont have too. i dont understand . i will try another platform where u have to pay.